Time to talk about the break-up
I have resisted talking about my trip to Perth, because it inevitably brings up the thorny issue of my break up with the bloke.
To be honest, I asked for it. The colossal mistake which he made, was in my view, absolutely unforgivable. In my books, I place it up there with cheating, as in the whole ‘hooking up with someone else’ type of cheating. That’s not to say that he did exactly that, by the way. I only likened it to that, because I used to think that that was the point of no return in a relationship, should that occur.
But then, when I asked for the break-up, he felt that it should not have been a reason.
However, I do feel that it is a very legitimate reason for why I should set aside this three year relationship.
If this comes across as cold, then I am really sorry. Please do note that I am not entirely unaffected by all of this.
In the end, I can’t change the way things happen and feeling helpless and dwelling on it is never conducive.
I guess I will move on. Someday.
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